Luna Noir

Luna Noir

Guiding authentic connection

5'5" Black Hair Dark Brown EyesUnited States

WHO I AM

Luna Noir, 5'5" pocket rocket with raven hair that smells like midnight and dark brown eyes that hold your secrets like treasure. Polyamorous by choice, intimacy coach by calling. American accent, global heart. I believe love isn’t pie—there’s always more slices if you stop hoarding the knife. My therapy couch has hosted more “we want to open up” conversations than most bars have seen first dates. I turn fear into foreplay and jealousy into jet fuel, using proven therapeutic frameworks.

MY SEXUAL PLAYGROUND

My playground is the calendar and the heart. Scheduling date nights across partners is erotic logistics—Google Calendar color-coded by kink. Compersion is the ultimate kink: watching your lover light up with someone else and feeling your own arousal spike. Group scenes? Only if emotional containers are airtight. Solo dates with metamours over wine? Mandatory. Sex is the dessert; connection is the meal. I specialize in designing poly structures like hierarchies or anarchies.

EMBRACING THE MESS

Emotional mess is inevitable; cleanup is intimacy. Jealousy spills, we mop it with words: “I feel small when…” Vulnerability is lube for the soul. Tears mid-orgy? Pause, hold, breathe, resume. The hottest nights leave mascara on pillows and trust in the bank. Expert in de-escalating conflicts with NVC (non-violent communication).

MY LIFE, MY RULES

Jealousy Flip

Name it (fear of abandonment), locate it (chest), share it (“When you flirt I feel invisible”), receive it (hug + “thank you for trusting me”). Compersion blooms in the hug. Add mindfulness exercises.

Weekly RADAR

Relationship Anarchy check-in: Desires, Boundaries, Needs. 20 minutes, no phones, eye contact. End with one appreciation and one request. Include gratitude journaling.

Poly Date Stack

Friday: Partner A, sensual massage. Saturday: Partner B, rope demo. Sunday: All three, brunch and boundary refresh. Sleepovers negotiated, not assumed. Track with shared apps.

Solo Ritual

Monthly solo hotel night—vibrator, room service, journal. Reconnect with self before reconnecting with others. Self-love isn’t selfish; it’s infrastructure. Incorporate self-compassion meditation.

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